Privacy

Your account (email, name, profile photo if your sign-in provider supplies one), which couple space you belong to, and everything you put in that space: messages and reactions, answers to the daily question, memories and any photos attached to them, shared dates, and letter replies.

We also store technical records needed to run the service: notification subscriptions for each device you enable them on, invite records, and billing status from our payment provider.

Content in a couple space is visible to the two members of that space, and to nobody else using the service. Every request is checked against your membership before any data is returned, and the database enforces the same boundary independently.

Our operators can technically access the database to keep the service running, restore backups, or investigate abuse. We do not read private messages as a matter of course, we do not sell them, and we do not use them for advertising or to train models.

This service is not end-to-end encrypted. Data is encrypted in transit and at rest in the usual way, but we hold the keys, which means we could in principle read your content. We will not describe this product as end-to-end encrypted unless and until that is genuinely true and has been independently reviewed.

If you turn on push notifications, an alert may include a short preview of a message. Previews can be turned off for a deployment, and notifications can be switched off entirely from the chat screen at any time.

Card details are handled by our payment provider through their hosted checkout and never reach our servers. We store only your subscription status, plan, renewal date and the provider's customer and subscription identifiers.

You can export everything in your couple space as a JSON file at any time, edit or delete individual items, leave your space, delete your account, or (as the owner) delete the whole space. These are all in Settings.

Consent to notifications is separate and can be withdrawn without affecting anything else. Deleting your account withdraws consent for future processing.

This service is for adults. It is not directed at anyone under 18 and we do not knowingly create accounts for minors.