Data retention

Messages, memories, dates, daily answers and letter replies are kept for as long as the couple space exists. We do not expire old content — the point of the product is that it accumulates.

Nothing is deleted. Paid features stop after the grace period and the space reverts to free-plan limits, but existing content stays readable and exportable. If you are over a free-plan limit, you can still read and delete, just not add.

Leaving a space removes you from it and deletes your notification subscriptions and device records. Shared content stays with the remaining member — it is theirs as much as yours, so we do not remove their copy of a conversation you both wrote.

Deleting your account removes your account record, your two-factor secret and your devices. Your messages remain in your partner's space.

The owner can delete the whole space. That permanently removes messages, reactions, memories, uploaded photos, dates, daily answers, invites and the subscription record for both members. This cannot be undone, and we cannot restore it for you.

Deleted content can persist in encrypted database backups until those backups age out. Backups are not used to restore individual deleted items. Operational logs record request metadata, not message content, and are kept only as long as needed to run and secure the service.

Exports are generated on demand and streamed straight to you. We do not keep a server-side copy. Credentials — invite tokens, push keys, two-factor secrets — are deliberately excluded from exports.