Safety

Leave this site now — this opens a neutral page. To remove traces afterwards, clear your browser history for this site, or use a private window next time.

If this app is installed on your home screen, deleting the icon removes the shortcut but not the account. Sign out from Settings first.

Being clear about this matters more than reassurance:

• Every message, memory, date and daily answer in your shared space.
• Whether you have read their messages, and when you answered today's question.
• Your display name and the email address on your account.

They cannot see your password or sign-in codes, and they cannot sign in as you.

Turn on two-factor authentication in Settings. It means that even someone who can read your email cannot get into your account. Keep your recovery codes somewhere your partner cannot find them.

Nobody should require you to hand over your account, your codes, or your phone. A request like that is not a sign of closeness.

You can leave a couple space at any time from Settings, without the other person's permission. They keep the shared history — you cannot delete their copy of a shared conversation — but you are removed and they cannot reach you here again.

If you are worried about their reaction, consider exporting your data and leaving at a time when you are safe.

This app is not therapy, counselling, or crisis support, and we cannot intervene in a relationship. If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency number.

For domestic abuse support, search for a national helpline in your country — most operate 24 hours and can advise on safety planning. A public library or a friend's device is a safer place to search from than a shared one.